A Yr of Excessive-Functioning Melancholy

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Once I activate my work laptop, I maintain seeing articles on my feed for high-functioning melancholy like “5 Indicators You Could Have Excessive-Functioning Melancholy,” “Are You Struggling From Excessive-Functioning Melancholy?” and “You Might Have Excessive-Functioning Melancholy and Not Know It.”

I don’t know why there was such a current slew of articles about this subject. Actually high-functioning melancholy is totally different than seasonal affective dysfunction, which tends to point out up this time of 12 months.

I don’t know why I even click on on these articles to learn. The truth that I do might be making an attempt to inform me one thing, specifically that I’m regarding the title or one thing inside the articles resonates with me, so I proceed to learn comparable articles.

What’s high-functioning melancholy? One put up right here defines it as follows: “If you happen to battle with high-functioning melancholy, you should still go to work, see pals, and attend occasions. However the heaviness hardly ever leaves you; you carry a sense of exhaustion wherever you go. You’re feeling weighed down by burdens. You assume you don’t have anything to stay up for once you consider the long run.”

I really feel as if I’ve been coping with high-functioning melancholy for near a 12 months. I take pleasure in my job, which I’ve been in for 10 months, however the hours are lengthy. I’m enrolled in a fellowship program for medical supervisors, and it was a aid to listen to one of many different attendees say that “we,” that means social staff as a career, don’t make sufficient cash, as a result of managing my funds is anxious, particularly round this time of the 12 months. I’ve taken on a second job, admittedly not only for the additional revenue, which is sweet, however for the chance. Subsequent week, I begin as an adjunct teacher at an area non-public school instructing an Introduction to Counseling class.

How will we do it? Margaret Rutherford writes, “Psychologically talking, folks with high-functioning melancholy are ready to make use of the talent of compartmentalization, the place you suppress your personal private emotions for the second and as an alternative, attend to the wants or expectations of the current.”

I’ve ongoing medical points with a number of unknowns up within the air, which might be inflicting me stress. My insurance coverage lastly accepted a particular form of MRI after denying it 3 times. This MRI will present if I want surgical procedure, which after all I hope to keep away from. The opposite main difficulty is extra neurological in nature and there are extra questions than solutions. A brand new neurologist is within the strategy of reviewing my previous historical past of mind CT’s and MRI’s (and there are greater than a number of) and I’ve an appointment along with her on the finish of February, which appears a very long time away. I used to be simply identified with sleep apnea, which this sleep doctor believes is contributing to, if not inflicting, my years of insomnia. Nobody thought I may have sleep apnea as a result of I’m not chubby. At first, insurance coverage wouldn’t even approve a take a look at in a sleep lab, however when the house take a look at got here again with low oxygen ranges, they did approve the take a look at within the sleep lab that confirmed sleep apnea. I’ve a digital appointment at the moment to be taught to make use of the CPAP machine.

I stand up each morning (round 2 AM or 3 AM) exhausted, however I can’t get again to sleep. Round 6 AM I take Shelby for a stroll, feed her, after which prepare for work. I log onto my laptop round 7 AM and ship out the hyperlinks to the periods for the day. Then I stroll Shelby once more, particularly if I’ve morning periods. At 8 AM I sit down for the day and work till 7 PM or 8 PM. I eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner at my desk. I collapse on the finish of the day and Shelby is begging for consideration, so I play along with her for some time. We exit for our night stroll, and after I come again upstairs, relying on how exhausted and laptop weary I’m, I’ll verify my private emails or go away them for early the subsequent morning.

I hardly ever have sufficient power to jot down (it’s about 4:30 AM now) as a result of I’m additionally technically engaged on a memoir, however I don’t have the impetus to jot down persistently. If I had two resolutions for the New Yr (and I don’t consider in resolutions), it will be to learn extra this 12 months as an alternative of aimlessly browsing the online or scrolling on Instagram. And to spend extra time engaged on my memoir.

I did return to remedy a number of months in the past, however I didn’t discover it useful. I’m pondering of looking for one other therapist, as a result of the best way I’m feeling shouldn’t be sustainable. One new consumer mentioned it took her a 12 months to seek out me, so this doesn’t encourage optimism. I do know it’s tough to seek out therapists who’re taking new purchasers proper now.

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Since my final therapist didn’t work out, I must determine what I’m on the lookout for in a therapist and what I need out of remedy. One drawback is I examine everybody to my former psychiatrist, Dr. Lev, who I can’t afford to see proper now, and nobody can measure up. I do know that’s not honest to any new therapist stepping in, however I don’t know learn how to resolve this. This difficulty is one which retains me from on the lookout for a brand new therapist. Certainly one of my balls that is still up within the air.

Thanks for studying.

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